I am independent man who has my own busy life, I am a man of substance and presence, wise, open and kind, family is important to me, I am grounded and fun loving even though i had lost my wife and both parents when i was young. I have the ability to create around me the life and the things that I want and the things in life we would want together… I want to continuously grow as a person with a strong woman by my side to grow with in my life…I would be happiest with an intelligent, sexy